Welcome! My name is coach Rina dating and relationship head coach for men at Chengi’s world.
I help high value men become who they need to be to attract and create loving, happy and purposeful relationships with women who respect, cherish and desire them.
Anyone that knows me knows that love and relationships is my passion! As I believe love and healthy relationships are the foundation to a healthy community, society and world.
From a young age I seemed to be a natural with connecting with the boys on a heart to heart level. As I grew a little older I found myself on two sides of the coin with men- (1) the lady that the men wanted to marry or (2)the younger ‘big sister’ that men both younger and older than me will come to for support and advice through the toughest times in their lives. The issues guys came to me with ranged from settling relationship troubles or trying to win back the heart of their love, many of whom suffer depression or even felt suicidal. This immediately gave me a soft spot with the guys and helped me understand that despite the hard exterior or terrible reputation that men have as heartbreakers trying to play women, there are many lovely men who truly desire to love and be respected but unfortunately have been hurt in the process, are crap at choosing partners or can’t seem to keep a relationship with a good girl. It was amazing to witness some of these men make slight shifts that created big changes in their love lives.
I soon discovered that there were 3 types of men in the dating world
(1) The bad boys. These guys are so exciting and know the right things to do and say to stay in a woman’s mind and get her addicted! These guys are pros at the dating games, and understand what it takes to attract and get a woman hooked. Their competence however is used to play around, sleep with and hurt as many women as possible. Whilst exciting to women, these men find themselves incapable of making a true and lasting bond with a woman.
(2) The nice guys. These guys are described as nice and lovely. They truly want to find long lasting love with a gorgeous girl. Sometimes they have their life and finances together and are ready to spoil a woman rotten. However they have been hurt too many times and attract manipulative women over and over again. Even though they are great and have big hearts, they can quickly become uninteresting and boring to the type of women they want. As a result, they get friendzoned by the ones they desire and are desired by the ones they want to friendzone. On the off chance that they do eventually find love, this relationship becomes very difficult to navigate. They either have to stay in an unhappy relationship or break up to start the cycle all over again.
(3) The competent guy (the one Chengi refers to as “naturals”. He is far from perfect but is confident and knows how to communicate with and treat a woman right. These guys usually are married or in a committed relationship. The others that are intentionally on a break focus on their growth, healing and purpose but once they are ready to get on the dating market, they already have a choice of women around them to pick from or know how to pick a great girl in no time.
Having helped and experience a wide range of men from the nice guy to the competent man, in addition to interacting with a lot of women through group coaching sessions, I know that being handsome, attractive, nice, kind and even religious is just simply not enough to maintain attraction in a relationship.
It became my mission to teach men how to show up as High Value Men to bridge the gap between being the good guy (or the reformed bad guy) to being the competent guy that can attract and keep high quality women who respect, cherish and desire them.
I will help you MEN to win in love!